writing
Not everything, just my best stuff.
arts & entertainment
Who gets to tell the story of Félix González-Torres? in Out Magazine / 2025
How to fight LGBTQ+ book bans in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2024
Professor Marston and the Wonder Women is the kinky queer film we need in The Advocate / 2017
How Oliver Sacks' book 'Gratitude' helped me through my breakup in Mend / 2016
America's Next Top Model hunk comes out as sexually fluid and we're in love in PRIDE / 2015
New York sculpture made of LGBT blood is going to church in The Advocate / 2015
The Imitation Game elegantly misses the mark in District / 2014
Coming together for The Normal Heart in District / 2014
A tragic glimpse of gay life in Hunted in District / 2014
essays & opinion
Why I'm quitting Grindr for good in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2025
Dying gay bars? There's a sobering upside in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2023
Why traveling is a queer experience in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2021
It's time to talk about gay steroid use in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2023
Author Alexander Cheves on why he moves often in Out Traveler / 2022
Turning 30: what it means when you're gay in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2022
I'm wary of the hype surrounding HIV “cures” in them / 2019
Why I got a biohazard tattoo for Pride in The Body / 2019
AIDS panic should not be a defining queer experience in Plus (print and digital) / 2018
World AIDS Day: how I found hope after my HIV diagnosis in them / 2018
Straight folks, there are some spaces you don't belong in in The Advocate / 2017
Why an AIDS foundation's crusade against PrEP is on the wrong side of history in VICE / 2016
The porn industry needs your love in The Advocate / 2016
Why I didn't come out as Poz on World AIDS Day in The Advocate (print and digital) / 2015
Matt Bomer helped me embrace my gay identity in Project Q / 2014
health & wellness
This Pride season, ‘Undetectable = Untransmittable’ needs to be your mantra in Hornet / 2018
The World Health Organization says you probably have herpes in Plus / 2015
Is your penis smaller than average? in Plus / 2015
World Health Organization: red, processed meat causes cancer in Plus / 2015
identity & culture
Does the leather community have a Nazi problem? in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2025
Is latex the vanguard of kink? in Document / 2022
Can fetish be fashion? in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2021
music & nightlife
Chris Bauer works to make Berlin nightlife better in Hinterhaus / 2025
Diplo is the unlikely ambassador of a sexually fluid future in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2023
George Michael was the kind of gay man we now whisper about in The Advocate (print and digital) / 2017
Missing the Black Party, a pilgrimage site for gay men in Document / 2023
COVID won’t stop Atlanta’s most iconic leather bar from queering the South in them / 2020
The Cock is the last filthy gay bar in New York in them / 2020
After 40 years, the Black Party is a testament to our survival in them / 2019
Going Vogue: Fighting HIV in L.A.'s emerging ball community in The Advocate / 2015
news & reporting
Sex Panic: New York bill attempts to spread anti-porn myths in The Advocate / 2019
WeHo protesters: 'No bad whores, just bad laws' in The Advocate / 2015
Age, Weight, PrEP Status: hookup app's next filtering option in The Advocate / 2015
Escorts unite in defense of Rentboy in The Advocate / 2015
STUDY: NYPD harming homeless LGBT youth in The Advocate / 2015
Gay marriage legalized in half the country in District / 2014
politics
When it comes to sex work, Kamala Harris hasn't completely evolved in The Advocate / 2019
The dangerous trend of LGBTQ censorship on the internet in Out Magazine / 2018
profiles
Patrick Smith is leaving marks on kink culture in The Advocate / 2017
Justin LeBlanc fights for the Deaf one garment at a time in The Advocate / 2015
Why Mr. Leather went to Uganda in The Advocate / 2015
Leatherman Eric Paul Leue is out to abolish sexual shame in The Advocate / 2015
relationships
In defense of gay monogamy in Out Magazine / 2024
What makes a single queer man desirable in 2023? in Out Magazine (print and digital) / 2023
21 tips for opening up your relationship in The Advocate / 2021
5 things I learned from dating a bi guy in The Advocate / 2015
sex
What is chemsex? Here's what you need to know in Out Magazine / 2025
13 new tips for happier, healthier bottoming in Out Magazine / 2022
Everything you need to know about losing your V-card in Very Good Light / 2020
How six kinksters found their kinks in Them / 2019
9 sex tips for people not on HIV treatment in The Body / 2019
Confession from a fake submissive (NSFW) in Recon / 2019
25 tips for your first fist in The Advocate / 2018
The HIV-positive person's guide to sex and dating, part one and The HIV-positive person's guide to sex and dating, part two in them / 2018
How do I know if I’m a bottom? (part 1) and How do I bottom? (part 2) in them / 2018
26 things gay sex workers want you to know in The Advocate / 2018
55 DOs and DON'Ts of attending a gay sex party in The Advocate / 2017
17 tips for happier, healthier bottoming in Out Magazine / 2017
15 reminders that Pride is also about sex in The Advocate / 2017
30 kinky terms every gay man needs to know in The Advocate / 2016
36 fetishes every gay man should know in The Advocate / 2016
sponsored content
She won’t play with my butt! for b-Vibe / 2022
Finding the right sex toy for your queer body in Them / 2020 — sponsored by Lelo
The ultimate guide to anal sex in Out Magazine / 2017 — sponsored by Bespoke Surgical